Freedom...

shmeet wrote:And I'm quite sure that you had read this one...

Impressive shmeet this story means a lot for me, I understand your explanation.
Feelings are hiding behind the genes or genes are hiding behind the feelings...
It's hard to trust a "scientist" theory to explain why you're sad or mad.
I've more consideration about strength, education or sensivity (but all that could be explain with your theorem...)
But I'm really gonna try to think about it.
(I hope there is a translation of this book in my native language
that's also why I can't develop more my answer).

First of all, thank you shmeet to have taken the time to share this story here, it really helps.
And you're right, drinking is not the solution, I've been quite sober those last days and I feel better.
For sure I need time, I had some relationships in the past and now it's almost done...
But even if I have some girls in my bed now, I still feel weak and lonely.
The hardest point is of course to forget her.

Thank you again I feel a little better with your support and what you said.
Maybe the other girls helps a little bit also (damn I hate summer !)
But there is no way for me to love again, for the moment...

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Ain't that the truth!!! Wow, hearing you say that reminded me when i was in your place. Wow! I remember that feeling of knowing that there is no way i'm ever going to be who i was before i met this girl. That this constant, for lack of a better word, "pain" will be eating away at my soul forever! It was just so fucking strong! Like all the emotions inside of me were hitting me 1000x harder than i've ever felt them before. And to make it worse they were indistinguishable from one another --like a giant sandstorm of anger and sadness and helplessness... So much anger and hurt!


OMFG!!! What a trip! I never EVER thought i would make it out of that place and be me again! But look, Here i am on the other side of all that crap. And i AM me. Just like i was before i met her. Very strange. lol Must be the genes **** me to push on ahead and make a baby with someone else.

Hey man, I can truly sympathize with you. Now i remember all too well.

But hey, you know what, It really is going to pass. lol Can't believe i'm actually telling you that, but it's true man! It really is true!!! You're gonna be fine. It will take a few years i'm sorry to say, but it WILL fade away. Wow. lol


What is your native language? I'll check around for that book to if you'ld like but, well, you seem to understand english better than alot of people i know here in usa. lol americans are dumb!

First, thank you once again shmeet, I pm you that I've tried to answer to your post but I was tired to make sad answers, I think you'll prefer this one

Revive ! (No I won't change the title of this topic ^^)

Still don't have a regular job, still have some problems with...

But there is a beautiful girl in my life ! blond, blue eyes, funny, perfect...

Months of anger are behind me, it was really hard but worth the reward...

I had to share my feelings with you fellas, lots of you gave me some strength.

Thanks to all who supports me and to the others also.

This is a message of peace and hope.

thebaba wrote:

You just made my day friend! I'm so very happy to hear this!!
Best of luck with the new lady.

Fonzz wrote:Thank you my Fonzz
For your support here, and elsewhere.

Very happy for you man! I really hope this one works out for you. A word of advise, if you at any point feel even a hint of a feeling that you had when things started going wrong with your last girlfriend, even if you can't put the feeling into words, you HAVE to let her know at ASAP! If you don't say anything and just hope it goes away, or trick yourself into thinking it's just your imagination etc., then you will have planted a seed that WILL grow into something. It won't be good either. That's how it happens man.

Being human we have the power to manipulate and define what we think and feel better than any other creatures on the planet... just keep talking!!! Never let things go unsaid.

Now that this place looks like it may go under, i haven't been here in a while... If it does, i sincerely wish you the best and i hope our paths cross again.

shmeet

Hi shmeet,

Yep, you're right and I already had great discussions with my girl.
I'm so fine for the moment.

I'm not often here also, if you listen carefully to the words of Fonzz in his topic of "picjoke.com" you'll understand where we are all now.

Peace my friend, thank you for the help.

Hi thebaba.

shmeet can read this if he visits the forum but he cannot reply since he has been banned.

Great to see that things seem to be brightened up for you.
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