My boyfriend looks at Teen Porn here

Hello Everyone,
I just found this forum on my boyfriend's computer. lol

So I have a few questions and figured that you guys were the ones to ask since you visit this forum too. I hope you dont mind.

My boyfriend loves teen porn. Like Little Caprice, Anita-model, and girls that look even youn-ger. I absolutely have no problem with him looking at porn. I do the same but I must admit I'm a little worried about him looking at girls that look so young. He's a middle school teacher so he's around young girls all day and the girls on his computer look around 12-16 years old (I know they are legal and are just made to look that young though). I had no idea he liked teen porn until a few days ago when I had to use his computer and he left his saved pictures all open. 100s of teen porn pics. He never has sex with me anymore (we've been together for 2 years). I try to wear lingerie and get him turned on but it no longer works. He just wants to talk or watch tv. And to be honest, I know I'm hot so I absolutely have no idea what the problem is. (I know he's not cheating)

Anyway, my question is for those who also look at teen porn, is this something to worry about? Do you think he's fantasizing about these little girls he teaches at school? Do you think he lost interest in me because I'm not a "little girl" anymore? (I met him when I was 18 and a virgin. He says Im too sexual nowadays and "relationships are not about sex")

Help a girl out! I hope I get some decent replies here.

Well young girl fetish is rooted in the idea of being an untouched virgin. When I was 16 I had the hots for 16 year olds, not because of their mentality but rather they where DEVELOPED and INNOCENT. So now that I am in my 20s why would 16 year olds magically be unattractive?

Teen fetish is all about innocents but all the while sexual appeal. I don't jerk it to the idea of a 10 year old because they don't have a shapely ass and B cup tits. If a 16 year old has a nice ass and tits, whats not to like, age is just a number for sex, i mean you don't exclude sex with people based on any thing like , common interests , signs or personality, sex is based ONLY only physical appeal ( can be enhanced by personality) so ages aside its about the image of a girl, sometimes her youthful image can project that enhanced image of purity and innocents.

I made that as clear as I could.

This sounds so much like a hoax is not even funny.
So you say you consider yourself hot and you dress up in lingerie and he only wants to talk? I honestly don't even know how that could be. Maybe he just doesn't like you anymore. But damn 2 years and this is already happening ? Weird stuff.
As far as the whole middle scool girl fetish stuff its all about what's in his head, maybe he likes girls looking innocent but he doesn't necessarily wants to fuck a m-i-n-or you know. Its quite a stretch and you should probably talk to him about it instead of asking us pervs about your relationship problems...

Thanks for your replies.

Sadly, this is not a hoax. lol Ive tried talking to him regarding this but he wont respond. First he claimed he never looked at teen porn and then when I told him that I saw his pics he said those were accidentally downloaded. Surrre.Then he eventually admitted it but said it freaked him out talking about any kind of porn with me. I personally would love to share porn together and watch/look at things together but he doesnt want that.

I just wanted to understand the infatuation with young girls better. Now I'm starting to after reading Lay's post.

Do you think he'd enjoy me acting innocent and putting more innocent lingerie outfits on? Or do you think his image of me is already ruin because hes already had sex with me?

So why did I come here? Basically theres no way in hell Im talking about this with my friends, my boyfriend wont talk about it with me, and I just really want to understand what is going on. I figured you guys would know best so here I am...

(yep, 2 years and this is already happening! Sad, I know. But other than sex issues,we have a great relationship.)

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How do you know they are legal? I recommend that you immediately delete them and confront him about his issues before this gets really nasty.

It is not normal to be acting this way...

He is very insecure about sex and himself.
He is afaid to be with women who are mature.
They intimidate him. He feels more control over very young women.

Hi Goodgirl, now, here's you chance to get your own back....Any chance of posting pix of yourself in a school uniform??????

You seem to want to talk a lot. Maybe that's turning him off, Goodgirl.

Have you tried shaving off all your pubes and buying some lollipops? That might stoke his fire.

IceTrain wrote:

LOL, yah, I'm not buying this story... but if I did, there's your advice right there.

Plenty of ppl fantasize about things they'd never actually do, so help a brother out.

Let your bf do his stuffs girl.

He's a man so it's just normal for him to love porn.
Move on!

so what, it is just so normal. i cant think a man that have a computer but no porn in it. and for ignoring you, i think you need to talk with him about your concerns, i think he will understand you. but dont think that he has any interest to his students, porn is just an another world, which not related with real world, it least it should be so..

Goodgirl, you seem like a great girl to me, being openminded about sharing the porn, although i understand your surpriseness of discovering your bf watching teenporn. I found that probably at least 90 % of men are naturally attracted by the beauty, pureness and perfection of sexy woman and sometimes younger girls, although not every man will or can commit to it at the same level.
I think the 'problem' you have with your BF might as well be a universal problem. As so many guys watching porn or girls, he is in his fantasy and yes that gives a man kind of extascy. (dopamine etc)
A man will have lust for the rest of his life. So too should a woman ideallicilly, but only by being truly openminded and commiting as well as loving you can be both be happy with it I guess and understand the differences and/ or merges of love and lust. I'm single myself so count out for yourself the value of my words tough... :wink:

think is good for you when you show a girly or teen and then need your friend this forum not. also buy clothes and dress you up..

*lol*

Think this post was a fake.
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You need to start dressing up as a Furry, that is sticking a fake tail on the top of your butt and painting wiskers on your face.

If he aint interested in you when you wear lingerie then your relationship is at that stage where you have to be totally submissive to him.
Get him beer at every chance you get, tell him you want to suck him off, when his parents are over visiting, that should add some excitement.

Then, if that fails.
Turn off the computer and stop posting bullshit stories.

nudge96 wrote:

Long live psychology 101.
Always easy to diagnose situations based on your own insecurities.