Dont mean to be harsh but, I'm not buying this story either. I think most would dump this guy in a flash if it were, especialy if you are as hot as you claim to be (though you are probably a guy). He's a middle school teacher that likes to collect porn of "100's of girls" that look 12 - 16.
On top of that, he's traded real sex with you for jerking off to this stuff. "You are too sexual...Relationships are not about sex". Are they about jerking off in private instead of giving it to your partner? What relationship advice would really be needed.... if this scenario was actualy for real ?