At some point when he's approaching an age such as 30, a guy should try to create a list with the NAMES
of every girl he ever had sex with -- in chronological order.
And, if he can't do that, while their memories are still reasonably fresh . . . well, that's a
sign that he probably wasn't paying enough attention, while he was doing it.
I went thru a first marriage, with no offspring, and almost no hassles leaving it (we had
put each other thru college and grad school, and we just wanted to live in different states after that).
So, with an advanced degree, an experienced understanding of how to bring a lady to a
climax with just my hand, and a willingness to buy a brand new vibrator especially for the lady
(whatever kind she wanted ...), any time I met a new one I was interested in -- and BTW,
if you bring HER to climax, a couple of times, before YOU go piling in, she'll appreciate your
thoughtfulness so much that you'll get a whole lot BETTER sex, when it starts -- that
quite a few divorcees and single moms started coming my way (pun intended).
So, by curious and unplanned coincidence, my wife -- the lady I absolutely stopped with --
turned out to be number 50.
And that there is one cool set of memories. Wish I could do it again.