I hear ya Elf. We live in a country where, if it suites the other person, they attack. Full force. Sue, sue, ruin, chaos, ha ha, I am king. It's litterally a dog-eat-dog world.
Here is what I have found.
The pushers, in general (that means pushing of anything illegal) tends to get off easy, but the 'user' is the one that gets the short end of the stick.
The only difference is, the richer you are, the more you can get away with. Did someone say OJ!?!