Deeptrance116 wrote:Not to offend anyone here, but I've always found that those who are into anal have real control issues, or are generally violent individuals. I have done it once, tricked into it rather while I was drunk on my back and she was on top of me, and it was so ghastly that I will never do it again, not that I had intended to do it in the first place. I don't care how tight the hole is; my goal is to bring a woman to orgasm, and unless I find a woman with a clitoris in her anus, I do not believe anal sex will achieve my desired result.
A very thoughtful response and I can totally appreciate it, but it also assumes a lot.
I too enjoy sex most when both people are achieving maximum pleasure, but it is a misgiving to assume that anal sex cannot be pleasurable for a woman. I actually had a friend (never fucked her; just a friend) who could ONLY achieve orgasm when she was getting fucked in the ass.
Many women enjoy it. Many don't.
I'm a guy without gender bias, and have had my fun with guys as well as women, and have to say that I myself like getting fucked in the ass. So I know first hand that it can be intensely pleasurable.
This is something that is totally subjective, as anything related to human intimacy is.
But while I take exception to the generalities of your remark, I do respect your individual preference, and the thoughtfulness behind it.
As for me, I love everything about women, but I can say that I really enjoy making the anal plunder when the opportunity arises. But again, only when the girl is into it.
I guess you could say that I love the pussy for the munching and the ass for the plunging.
But really, I just go with the flow when I am with a woman, and am always satisfied with whatever satisfies her.