lazuro wrote:the thing is i am attracted to femininity and not masculinity. So if a guy was ultra fem, i could be attracted to him because i dont really undertand the problem most men have with dicks. you all have one and probly play with it pretty fuckin often so i dont really care if my partner happens to have one aswell.
oh, and i never meant to post that 3 times, sorry
Lazuro, thank you!
Seriously.
You see, I always had this conflicting notion about the attraction to she-males..
You see, oddly, it is mostly "straight" guys who like these exceptional creatures.
Part of me always believed this was a sort of subversive means for a man to be with a man without admitting that he likes men; that guys who like she-males are closet-cases.
BUT...
You already read my response here; the whole reason I didn't enjoy it as much as one might think (being that i am bi), is because she WASN'T a man; neither a man NOR a woman.
So why would a person choose a man that seems in every way except one body part to be a woman as a partner if he likes men?
Right?
Well, I think you just explained it.
It is the attraction to femininity, plain and simple.
You'd have to have an open mind that can accept that presence of man-meat down below, but that is not hard for those of us a little less influenced by social conditioning.
I imagine that this actually kind of adds to the thrill of it for some, but not because they "want" a cock; simply because a little taboo adds a little excitement to a lot of things.
Anyway, cool, thanks for the insight.
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