You are not alone. When this habit started it was novel and quite sexy. The female involved spoke dirty, stripped off naked and then did various things with what was clearly a male. Now it has turned into a few words, the female filmed above waist only, does not even remove her bra and then pretends to suck off what is clearly an imitation cock. Who the hell finds that a turn on? The likes of Tara Tainton and Jodie Foster appear to have started a trend that has spread like wildfire. I understand that Tara, for example, has done what I would describe as normal porn but try and find it amongst the mass of the porn you describe and even her later efforts are nowhere near as good as the earlier ones. It was a novel idea that has run its course but, unfortunately, is still spreading. Oh for a return to the format of vintage porn - a good plot, a good story, professional acting and several hardcore scenes to add extra spice.