a new boyfriend

guys,

it has been so wonderful to have my own precious seven dwarves right here, for my very own...

you guys have given me such indispensable advice, which i appreciate enormously...

i have been seeing a 37-year-old never-been-married man for a few months now...

i know he has never been married, he allowed me the privilege of giving me full access to info... and i did the same for him...

i am 27... i am quite close to "being in love," but not yet fully there...

he is adorable, 100% gentleman, he is non biased regarding gender, is happy and constantly makes me laugh/smile, he LOVES his job...

so what do i i do...?

is he too ld for me...?

do i fall back to someone my own age...??

this guy is too good to be true... i trust him completely... but........

is there ANYTHING i am missing...??

what do you guys see that i might not see...

most sincerely, your girl,
julie

If your only issue is with the age difference, then I say give it a shot. I don't think age matters too much after you reach 25ish, the age plays a larger role the youngr you are.

No he's not too old for you. Age is pretty much irrelevant if you care for and respect each other. Besides older men tend to be more emotionally mature and considerate. If you care deeply for him I say go for it and I wish you well of each other.

Let me tell you a story. I met my husband at a party, He was the rudest
most stuck up, rudest, self centered, rudest, most hateful, rudest,
person I ever met! It was hate at first sight! My first thought was how
to kill him and not get in trouble! Then it didn't matter if I got in trouble!
He thought I was a k i d! He offered me some Koolaide! Well I went to the
car and got my drivers license and rubbed in in his face! I sat in the corner
and pouted all evening!

I decided to seduce him and then cry ****!! Good plan??

I stayed after the party to apologize and help him clean up, well I seduced
him, and stayed on, 13 years!

I am 37 and he is 62 now!

You never know when love is going to bite you on the butt,, he did that too!

Best of luck in what ever you do!!

thanks... i just need time... but i find i desire that time to fast forward, because we live in a fast forward age...

i find i wish i could have lived 30 years ago... when, it seems, people didn't fast forward...

j

Forget two things.
1. Don't ask anyone else about the age issue. Regardless of mores, advice column stuff, or whatever, the only place you're going to find the answer to that one is in your own heart. Only you know what's going on in there. If you really believe there's not a problem, great; enjoy the relationship to the fullest. If, however, you constantly have an underlying feeling that it's "wrong", that feeling is going to be a problem until you can come to terms with it. All that said, 10 years is nothing.
2. Never "fast forward" life!!! It does that enough all on its own. You're in the part of a relationship (and life) that you want to savor the most! Relish the good stuff, learn from the bad, and listen very carefully to your heart.

Dont worry,Julie,nothing wrong with it. Ohehe,I know what I'm talking about,my last relationship partner was 49,more than twice my age.Nothing wrong with having a older partner,as long as it makes both of you happy.
Best thing would probably be,just go on with dating him,spend time with him and see what happens.
Good luck

Ay caramba


You shouldn´t ask advice here...... A couple of horny dudes, looking for porn


You should do what your instinct tells you. We can´t give you sollid advice. None of us knows the dude

you guys are so wonderful... THANK YOU...!

i sooooooooo appreciate your help...


tzman seems to have the best advice... all you other boyfriends of mine have really really good advice...

tzman has hit the nail on the head...

love you guys,

julie