Can someone be sexy whilst not being attractive?

There used to be this girl who a friend and myself used to see in a local bar many moons ago now, she was a girlfriend of someone we knew. She was about 5'11 and slighty over weight and stocky, no model, but bloody hell she ooozed sexyness. I suppose you could say she was 'attractive' as i was 'attracted' to her, but what i mean is not attractive in the every day meaning of the word. i.e didnt have looks that would get her on a catwalk.

I have a friend who's face is quite bad (bad skin, bad nose, ugly chin, etc), and she's built quite heavy - but I've never seen anyone with such sexy body language! She oozes sexuality, always drawing attention to her bosom and arse and squirming like a worm despite sitting almost still.

So YES! One can be unattractive and sexy simultaneously!

Absolutely. I've known a lot of women who wouldn't be considered attractive in a conventional sense but oozed sex appeal and some women who might be thought beautiful but were very cold.

Of course you don't have to look far on the pages of this site to realise that one mans idea of what is beautiful can be completely different from another's.

I know that I will probably never land a babe like the ones I see here but most of the time, the hotter they are...the more stupid the girl. Case in point the tv show "Beauty and the Geek".

Intelligence is a very big turn on for me because it opens up other avenues of a relationship when the sex becomes stale.

I have been around the block so to speak and have had a few gf's that my friends thought were very un-attractive buy my God were they smart.

Definitely. In a crowd there is always one girl who if you just saw her picture you wouldn't look at her twice, but whose physical presence (pheromones, movements, eye contact, etc.) make her unexpectedly popular when she is in the room. It also never hurts that the lack of intimidating beauty makes a woman seem more attainable to the the average male...