Help please, I have a problem

I am looking for some advise. Yesterday my wife was on my computer watching a movie I had downloaded, and after she was done watching the movie, she started looking around and "found" my collection of pics and videos. Not that I have been trying to hide anything though.

By way of explanation...and NOT bragging, we have a VERY healthy sex life, she is more than very Bi-sexual, and not only wants to have sex with girls...she NEEDS it. Therefore, threesomes are "normal" for us, and take place at least twice a month. I am 40 years old, and she is 22. She told me that our extremely active sex life should be good enough. She is very concerned about how y***g most of the girls look. I told her they were all of legal age, but she just shook her head, and said they certainly didn't look it. She asked me if l****e g***s turned me on, and she looked at me like I was just featured on NBC's "To Catch a Predator" I had no explanation for her at the moment, and just sat there and stared at her with an embarrassed stupid look on my face.

She dropped it when I could not come up with an answer, and has not made any threats nor issued any ultimatums. But they way she looked at me concerns me. I have to be totally honest with her, but how do I explain myself without making myself sound like a total pig?

My hands are shaking as I type this...she hit the proverbial nail on the head.

yungt33nluvr wrote:


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I think its instinct for us men to look after healthy, young women. Our instinct tells us that we give our genes only to such women because the chance that these women will have healthy babies is much bigger than a woman with (no offense) 50 will have.

Other influences are trends or maybe our education but the "Nature-Instinct-Thing" is a good explanation in my opinion.

Sorry for my english ,but I'm german


Greets

Jabby

My friend,
If it were possible for you to be one minute into the mind of your wife, to see her real thinks when she looks to a man or to a young lady, if you were able to know her truths desires and her intimate thoughts, you will be horrified and you will say in comparison you are an angel.
I don't know your wife, but I know women (I'm 53yo). And I understood that everybody (men like women) had many extraordinary phantasm, even little angels with young and innocent looks.
But the men do more as women, the men speak higher while the women don't speak about that, the men go towards the practice and the action while the women remain in their dreams and desires. Pehaps that is the reason for what the phantasm of the women are harder than those of the men : they are not accomplished. When she judges you, actually it is not one jugemlent, it is jealousy: because you acted for your phantasm but not her. If you were able to know her intimate desires.....
With that, have a quite night and a peaceful sleep.


Sorry for my mystakes, I'm not english.

Very very well spoken answers...even from the non English/American

Just got home from work, and she's at work for a wile longer, so hopefully all will be well when she gets home. Hopefully all will be peaceful tonight.

yungt33nluvr wrote:

Some women don't like at all that you watch porn. As simple as that.

One of my girlfriends discovered my porn collection a told me to delete all of it... I told her to "get the fuck out of my house", and we broke up.

Haha. Real story.

Djnx wrote:

Cassandra is cool with Porn in general. She was "upset" with the how young the girls in my collection look.

Nothing else has been said by her, and we had sex today, so I guess it's dropped...for the moment at least.

yungt33nluvr wrote:

Taped it right? Don't forget the previews when you upload that.

Deity wrote:Lol...no, but I wish!