second wrote:OK, I finally found what the extended standard service is: Something abbreviated "HE" in german, which means "Handentspannung" which is translated "relaxation by hand", so it's masturbation I suppose.
(read it
here if you can read german....)
Not so interesting for me...
(I prefer not letting my dick touched by strangers...)
For extra money some extra service is offered: Actual sex!
So without knowing it, I had my first contact with hookers!
(I was really naive and thought it's really only massage...)
But anyway, it felt good as it was. Maybe I'll ask someday whether she'll also make the massage naked...
If girls having sex for money are hookers, we here all love them.
Or do you believe porn-stars are having sex without getting paid for it?
Being a Tantra-fan
(look here for a tantra-clip!) I honestly believe all touch is sexual in a way: we are sexual beings, filled with sexual energy and our bodies are the expression of our sexuality.
So there's nothing wrong with sex. It's us. And there's nothing wrong with money either.
Most girls/ladies that have given me a massage didn't feel very comfortable involving litlle Mr. Rom30 (R0m 16 as I call it often. 16 inches obviously
), no problem for me.
On the other hand, when I give a woman a massage, it is sexual: the whole womans' body is one big sexual organ (as I like to see it. Most owners of a female body seem to agree with me here).
So when getting a free massage (free as in: no money. Not really free since I am expected to return the favor) I do not object to sex being a part of it.
Same thing when I pay for a massage: I have no problem with a lil sex thown in the mix.
But there's this thing with money: I rather spend it on hard-drives so I can store a lot of movies with women getting... paid for sex I'm afraid...
Besides: If I really want to pay for sex, you got all those PKK-sauna's over there in Germanistan, don't you?
Never been there, but I heard a lot of intriguing stores about them...