a few fetish questions

hi...

i recently looked at the fetish page and i have a few questions, questions for the guys who look at the extremely abusive pics. (ladies may respond, but i am chiefly interested in the male point of view.)

if you are too shy to reply you may pm me.

Q. 1.

After you view extremely abusive pics, pics where a male dominates and humiliates a female, do you find a feeling of fulfillment?

If you answered "No," what do you do, where do you go to find your fulfillment, or is that never achieved?

Q. 2.

Pick your favorite extremely abusive photo set. If you could have that photo set continue, what is it that you would like to see that was not in the original set?

Q. 3

If you could, either via photo sets or a live show, would you like to see the woman hurt. If so, how badly?

Q. 4

Let's say that some disaster happened, like a flood, or a hurricane and the two of us found each other as sole survivors, somewhere. I am 24, small and blond. Would I be save with you during the time I slept?

Q. 5

How many minutes during a 40 hour work week do you spend looking at extremely abusive and humiliating photo sessions where a male dominates and humiliates a female?

Q. 6

Do you meditate, either spiritually or non-spiritually?

many thanks for any time spent on this...

j

I think the type of thing you describe is a tiny percentage of whats posted here, which probably reflects society on the whole. Most of the people here want to see cute girls enjoying sex. Just look at the debate the Alice hc vids provoked, 90% of the posters would have much preferred to see her smiling and enjoying herself than crying and looking miserable. That sort of thing just doesn't do it for the majority here. Though i agree it would be interesting to find out what makes these people tick.

2stevejc,

thanks for the reply... it is much appreciated...

i still would like to hear the comments of those that follow such photo items...

respectfully,

j

Do you mean the bdsm photos? I'm not really into that scene but I have seen some Max Hardcore, and Slap Happy films. The question in my mind is not why men look at that sort of stuff, it's why any woman would participate in something like that in the first place. Some comedian once said "The first time I watched a Max Hardcore film, I didn't know whether to jerk off or call the cops". The thing about those films is that the models could say "cut" or get up and walk out at any stage of the proceedings but they don't. Instead they do more of the same type of films. I suppose "vanilla" sex can get boring at times and so the weirder side of sex can sometimes spark a person's curiosity.

I guess some women like being humiliated and degraded the same way that some men like being humiliated and degraded. It's definitely true that some women like it rough in the bedroom and like to be dominated. So the key point is the issue of consent and enjoyment. If a masochistic woman enjoys being humiliated and likes it rough then why should I object.

So I don't think it necessarily means anything if a guy looks at BDSM stuff occasionally. He could be completely normal. You would have to find out a lot more about him in order to know if he's a nutjob. That being said, Max Hardcore is a bit of a strange individual with some strange fantasies. If you ever found yourself stuck on an island with him and he started asking you to call him "mister", just jump into the sea and swim as fast as you can.

Well, now that I've replied, my instincts are telling me that there's something fishy going on here. I smell a rat and I think I know who that rat is.

juliegirl wrote:

Just give me the chance

juliegirl wrote:ladies? Don't worry, there aren't so many ladies around here...
But I having post e.g. this am the right person for these questions I suppose, so here we go...:
juliegirl wrote:Yes, it tuns me on. But I'd like to add: It's not important that a male humilates, it could also be a female, a group of persons or only a situation.
juliegirl wrote:Oh, what's my favourite abusive set? I really don't know! There are so many different kinds of humilation I enjoy [which doesn't mean I enjoy all kinds of humilation. I'm not too much in the BDSM stuff and I also don't like shitting or vomiting, that's too disgusting for me.], I really don't know!
But anyway: I never whished to continue a set. The set is as it is.
Although I have fantasies which combine severall types of humilation.
juliegirl wrote:
I prefer psychological violence (A good example for that is women letting their head shave for money, e.g. www.thaihair.com The girls aren't even naked, but that really turns me on so much....). I don't like the bodily pain so much. Only when it comes with an even bigger psychic injury.

But however, I would never cause such pain in any way. I enjoy the photos because they are there. I never paid for such stuff and will never encourage someone to do such things.
juliegirl wrote:
Yes, you would. I'd never do such things in real life. I even don't particiapate in my fantasies (with which I mean: I'm not the abuser in my fantasies). I just imagine things or look at pictures which exist already.
In real life, I'm a nice person and in relationships to women I'm tender.
juliegirl wrote:
Ehhh.... really don't know!
It's a question of phases: Sometimes I'm in that humilation stuff pretty much and I look at such pictures every day (for 10, 20 or 30 minutes or so...) and sometimes I prefer just aesthetic images.
And - as I said before - it's rellay not important that a man is the one who humilates.
juliegirl wrote:No, but in generall I'm a quite person. I don't feel any need to get even more calm than I am already....

So Juliegirl, how did you learn Czech in Boston?

Rei,

thank you very very much for your reply... it is appreciated greatly... thanks for staying with the format... thank you...

Dionysus, thank you too, your comments are much appreciated... but you didn't answer the questions... you shifted the topic and that will cause my questionaire to get bumped. (i am of czech descent, both my parents were born in cz)

Esteban... i luv ya, dude... i luv ya lots... but please, please stay on the subject (jeez you make me laugh... ty for that...)

j

juliegirl wrote:

As someone who has posted on the threads which I think you are talking about I thought I would have a go at responding, even though I don't quite understand some of the questions!

juliegirl wrote:

If by fulfilled do you mean "do you get off on it" then the answer is sometimes, though I'm far more likely to be fulfilled by the cute girls having fun that 2stevejc refers to earlier in the thread. Like everyone (I suspect), I have a darker side which is attracted to rougher sex. But, it could just as easily be women dominating men, or women dominating women - doesn't have to be the scenario that you describe. As Rei suggested, the domination could also be psychological or lead to pleasure just as much as pain...

I also don't think that the pics that have been on here are "extremely" abusive though I suppose that you could see them that way. I only enjoy looking at stuff which I am sure is consensual, that way I can enjoy the fantasy that maybe it is not...work that one out if you can.

juliegirl wrote:
Probably nothing...

juliegirl wrote:

Of course not!

juliegirl wrote:

Indeed you would. Safer with me than with many other people I would think. The gulf between fantasy and reality is a very big one! Let's not get the two confused. Your comment also made me think of this excellent video on youtube: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xmDPdCzCfFM

juliegirl wrote:

The answer to that one would have to be 0.

juliegirl wrote:

No, I'm the most serene person you would ever care to know so no need.

juliegirl wrote:

No problem - can I go back to posting pics now...?

baralis,

thank you also for such a fine response... you are such a gentleman too...

i deeply appreciate your candor...

sincerely,

j

juliegirl wrote:

Well, for a start - fetish is a lot more and dominating and humiliating is
a tiny part of it.
Depending on days mood and picture/vid contents and quality,
it could really be fulfilling. Even better if you aren't watching it alone.

I found out however, really nice pics with sweet models are better suited
for "fulfilling".

juliegirl wrote:
Well unfortunately many such sites make series a bit boring. I would tighten it up (in either sense

juliegirl wrote:

Depends on consent. I'm not in favor of plaid **** or such. It must start with appearing and really wanting the action that follows.

If she accepts it, she can be really hurt - but surely not in a way to loose
body parts or such.

juliegirl wrote:
Sure, but watch out when you are awake ) hehe, no kidding. Phantasie is one thing, reality is another. Also I try most things myself before doing
it to a partner (well, as anatomy permits of course So I know how it feels.

juliegirl wrote:
Its actually rare. Maybe once a month or once any 2 months.

juliegirl wrote:
No, maybe I should try

Pictures have been deleted at the thread owners request
SD

Teufl,

thank you very very much for your candor... it is appreciated greatly... you followed directions well... you answered the questions in an orderly fashion... however i wish you would not have added the pics because there is a chance my topic may get thrown off course...

but... nevertheless... do know that your reply is very very welcome, thank you so very much for taking time to do so, and so orderly...

very sincerely,
j

So tell me Juliegirl

are you a 2nd, 3rd or 4th year psych student?

sir_darkstar...

doctoral candidate... in journalism... emphasis on television broadcast...

but... my hobby is psychology... as a news reporter i feel it is one thing to have the written facts... but it is ever so much more important to be able to "read" someone...

this is a little test of that here, and i am so deeply appreciative of everyone's help...

very sincerely,

j

I apologize if I'm wrong, but I can't help feeling that Julie from Boston is actually a dude from Slovakia or the Czech Republic. Something's just not right.