random web-chat question...

my girl and i would like to find a "social-networking" type site where we can web-chat with other goof-ball people like ourselves. We're both young, in our twenties, and just want to find a way to casually fool around online via webcam.
any ideas? I've found a few sites that come close, but nothing that has an obvious monopoly on the market (like a myspace or facebook) We're not extreme exhibitionists. Just something we can make friends with people and also get silly.

I know facebook has a webchat app now, but i want to keep this type of fun away from billboards of my life that my family/friends can easily access....


thanks.

I think I can speak for us all when I say that we would really need a lot of explicit photos and videos of your girlfriend in order to give you the most informed and accurate answer possible.

Are you buying any of this...?

Blast! Foiled again by common sense!