Is it a secret?

If you have a wife or girlfriend living with you, does she know that you are watching porn movies? What does she think about it?

Some time ago I talked with my gf about porn and she told me she doesn't need "such things". So I decided to watch clips from my porn collection or to visit this forum only when she is not at home.

What are your experiences concerning this matter?

My wife absolutely hates it, a wildcat in bed, but when it comes to other things like this, definitely would have my balls.

My wife knows I watch it, and while she really doesn't care for it, she doesn't get on my case for watching it.

My wife knows I watch porn. She watches it about as much as I do, though

Look, it's not a secret you can hide forever. Eventually she will find out, and you will find out how she feels. Some women also like porn, but most don't seem to care for it- at least not as much as we do.

My wife absolutely detests porn. She believes it ruins marriages, we have been married for over 25 years Do you think she knows I watch porn? The answer.......Nope
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My g/f loves it -- she joins in. She'll sit beside me on the couch or in front of the computer, and jerk me off while I rub her pussy. She gets so fuck'n wet - a squirter by nature. It usually ends with her straddling me, reverse cowgirl or doggy style, so we can both watch the porn action. We have some favourite vids,, where we time it, so we both cum at the same time.

In fact she's right here beside me, while I'm writting this comment.

Very nice. I am slightly jealous by that actually. Heh, so the porn actually turns into a sex stimulant for the both of you- that's great.

Don't understand girls problems with porn, it's like saying you're afraid to express your sexuality and it should be contained to one place and certain times.

Watching porn with my boyfriend certainly does make the experience more enjoyable. I love it when I catch him watching it without me and we end up playing out the scorned girlfriend act until we both get so horny we just end up riding each other infront of the computer or tv.

I do understand why girls could be jealous. Especially when the guy is having actual cybersex with another girl.

Saetyr wrote:

I would totally be pissed/upset at that.

Getting off with another woman online (cybersex) is different from porn. Porn is not directly interactive. I could see a partner getting a little riled over that if it was done behind their back. General porn, nah. Just be sure to let them know you indulge in it, as if they didnt know already. Hopefully they'll be open minded enough to realize its just visual stimulation without attachments and even join you, as mine did countless times.

In all honesty, Porn has made our relationship stronger. From the start it kind of banished all our insecurities and inhibitions. It's made our sex life so much more than relationships i've had in the past where porn was always 'taboo'.

Xippo wrote:

A little riled over cybersex? I'd be infuriated ..

Well, it is basically cheating. If your partner was having phone/text sex with someone you would consider that cheating.