Are you gay if you like seeing a nude guy?

with all the nude guys in vids, is there any time that you enjoy seeing a nice looking guy?

maybe out of envy

Boy, you sure ask a lot of questions that directly or indirectly hint at curiosity about guys wanting to be with other guys, don't you?

Not that there's anything wrong with that.

EDIT: OK, maybe not that many. I had just looked at your question about being with a girl and another guy, so it just seemed like a lot in a part of the forum that is pretty dead these days...

And now to address your question, since my original reply was a bit jack@ss-ish...

As someone with a science background, I would say that the answer to your question - the way you phrased it - is no.

Gender is (usually) a one-or-the-other phenotype.

Sexual reproduction is a heterosexual activity.

But studies have consistently shown that sexual attraction/arousal is not an either-or, single-gene trait. It is likely highly polymorphic with most of the dominant alleles being for 'heterosexual' tendencies (as one might expect given the relative survival advantage of those alleles), with the result being something like eye color. Eye color is a polymorphic trait which - if I recall correctly - is controlled by at least 6 alleles.

And there are probably far more 'shades' in human sexuality than there are in eye color.

So I would say no. If looking at a guy arouses you, that does not mean that you are "gay." It just means that the real world is a lot more gray than black-and-white, that's all.

elfie wrote:

No . You are gay when you'd like to have sex with the guy you see, you can admire the way a guy looks but this is not gay. And all the people have something that belongs to both sexes.

elfie, dont tell me u get a hard on looking at a male thingy? I do admire a good looking guy. It's like "oh, how i wish i got his looks,body etc.." but i never get aroused by looking at nude guys.

that depends if the nude guy is getting fucked in the ass by a groupe of other guys then yes
however
if he is getting his penis toyed with by two teen twins'
then no

b-grims wrote:
I totally disagree. Your example can be deconstructed to an extreme closeup of a guys dick doing anal on a girl. Up close you can't tell the gender of the owner of the asshole on the screen, so either you enjoy seeing dick going in an out of any hole or you don't. Theoretically if you like seeing one, you must like seeing the other, because basically what you like seeing is dick going in and out. Sort of like the old "Crying Game" situation, which gets at the real physiological root of attraction. If Stephen Rea found the transvestite attractive when he thought it was a woman, then doesn't he really still find 'him' attractive after he finds out it's a dude?

In your example, I would say that if you like seeing 2 teens playing with a penis, then what you are enjoying is watching a penis get played with...

Personally that's why I like seeing the girl's face at all times during a scene. I don't care for extreme close-ups at all, because I am not really interested in watching a guy's dick work.

I also FF through the BJ parts of scenes because the focus on the dick does not do anything for me.

elfie wrote:

The question's not about being gay or not.
I definitely think the guy's looks and technique can make a difference.

billyellis wrote:

and thats why i dont like anal, its not gender specific, well said

billyellis wrote:

why yes, especially when its mine, but in the off chance i am still me and cant seem to muster twin teens, well then a bit of displaced imagination does help i suppose.

billyellis wrote:

now here is where i will have to disagree, please allow me to explain.
When the hottie is sucking away, its true i am inspecting the tool, ive no choice, and if the job is done correctly the penis is not removed from her mouth to then have him masterbate himself on and about her mouth area. no sir
a blowjob completed correctly would include an oral ejaculation and the only way that is going to happen is if you watch the crank. I have to say, if it makes me gay to see a cock pumping cum into some hot chicks mouth.. well then, gimme the gape!

how ami doing for my 5th post?

b-grims wrote:
Fair enough, and I admit that I also enjoy the facial ending of the typical scene as well. But again for me that is because the girl's face is involved and the guy's is not. Nothing ruins a porn scene more than a close-up on the dude's face as he is climaxing.

So let me backtrack gracefully on my overgeneralization from before. It is certainly possible to be completely hetero and enjoy watching girls play with dick if one is focused on the girls. Of course, as with the anal close-up example, if one enjoys close up shots of unidentifiable hands jerking cock, then you are drifting back into a gray area...

nevermind then

omg, what a comment

in the movie Watchma n, the big bluish silvery guy with a great body was walking around showing his penis

did you enjoy seeing the shots when his penis was showing (ie. from an artistic viewpoint) or were these shots for the women in the crowd.

i think the whole issue is one of security - are you secure acknowledging you dont mind looking at a guys nude body?

that thing was a fucking hammer as well eh?

elfie wrote:

The nude guys are one of the main reasons why I don't like porn. I always keep saying, apelike creatures climbing silicon valley.

Honestly, I can live without looking at nude guys. It's a major turnoff for me when all of a sudden some dick is waved into the picture.

But you can be right with your assumption. There might be some envy involved. But it's certainly not coupled with enjoying the view.

In porn, I want to watch YOUNG thin incredibly beautiful enthusiastic girls doing just about anything. Men I just have to put up with. They annoy me, esp. when they talk.

ok, i would like to admit that seeing a cute naked guy at times makes be kinda arroused, not sure it makes me gay but i dont mind ocassionally seeing guys nude preferably around nude girls