-=I QUIT PORN !!!!!! BYE ALL=-

.........being a porn-addict during 5 full years,i have wasted precious time.
seriously,i don't have any porn on my cpu and i have throw away my Cd's and i don't need to start downloading anymore porn......

porn are a world of illusions and dream that we cant reach unless if you are a porn star.If some people are ok to spend precious time on porn,this is their choice,but for me its over.Some people can spent 30 per week just to see porn and its ok,but when you need to view it everyday,it becomes serious


On a long term basis,it can be harmful to view to much porn.I nearly have completely lost the reality with the real world.always horny when i looked girls,i started getting pissed off.Now,when i see a girl,i see a human being instead of a slice of meat.Always viewing girls on net that make you believe they want you......

I feel better today.Like a guy who don't need is dose of drug everyday.I prefer to go in clubs one time per week to see real people and real girls instead of dreaming in front on my cpu and collect photos of a specific girl,remind these girls doesn't care of you,they want your $$$,not more.

The sad part its I'm a good looking guy,training 4-5 time a week,alot of girls looking at me in club.But i preferred to have illusion instead of meeting new and delicious girls.But damn,I'm shy but damn i like
girls,they are like cute little kittens.

Bye all and take care of yourselves

RouSSoneR

RouSSoneR - Good for you!
I used to be a little bit hooked on porn.... not so much dreaming about the girls or using the pics for masturbation, I just collected photos. But after I started to work more seriously as an adult webmaster, porn became more work than pleasure and I realized that the collection was more an obsession than anything else. So, as you I deleted EVERYTHING (except what I use for promo) from my computer. And after, I remember that I felt good!

One other thing that bothered me about porn was that when I had sex with a real girl I never got 100% turned on.... I am sure that had something to do with the massive dose of porn I got from the net!

I belive that porn is healthy in small doses. But when porn becomes an addiction, like gambling, you have a problem.

Do like RouSSoneR and go to the gym instead! Many hot babes there too

To Bad ... there goes a 1A Poster!
Maybe you shouldn´t see it as a addiction ... more as a hobby!
But is your choice! Good luck and thanks for your previous work!

If anything takes over control of your life, you better get rid of it.
I know, I've been gambling obsessively for seven years. I had a very hard time quitting, but I'm glad I did. I hated the feeling of that compulsive habit making decisions of how to spend my time and money. In the end I had to make a choice: gambling or my life. I choose life.

But as long as it adds something positive to your life, and you can enjoy it no habit is wrong.

Good luck RouSSoneR in getting your life back fully!

Congrats to you RouSSoneR!

I must admit that I´m addicted to porn. I´m starting to feel the consequences of it in my life, and I also want to choose life...but, how in the world you do it? Advises please?

Life offers everything you need to live.

Sex and porn is very attractive. So are drugs (included alcohol), girls, fast cars, money, power, TV, computer-games , you name it. That all is part of life.

Making a choice is a skill everyone has to learn, it doesn't come with birth all by itself. Learning that takes a lifetime. Learning to make sound choices and decisions is where life is all about.

I experienced my addiction as a blessing in disguise. Really. Thanks to that I had to make a decision, a choice. I was sort of **** to by my addiction. But first I had to learn how to do that, how to make choices. As soon as I started to learn that, my (own) life begun.

Compare a bird to a stone. The earth's gravity is very attractive to or pulling both. Yet the stone obeys the earth's gravity and it falls down straight. A bird plays with gravity, defies it and eventually chooses it's own direction to go, that's called flying. The earth pulls him down, but if he wants to, he will fly straight up towards the clouds.

Learning to make a choice is like learning to fly.

Actually, if you feel like a habit (collecting porn for instance) has taken over control, making a decision to stop that is the first (and most important) step in GETTING YOUR LIFE BACK. Your life as a human being.

Like in a bird's case, the very essence of being a bird is to fly, we human are beings born to make choices. A by divine intervention, no life can be lived without making choices. No life is worth living without that.

An addiction is no more than a reminder of the fact that you have neglected your power to make your choices and it urges you to make some. Quick. So you can't forget that.

With the ability to choose, sex and porn and drugs (included alcohol), and girls, fast cars, money, power, TV and computer-games, they are all fun and good and valuable and... Well, I don't want to live without all that!

Blablabla... Whatever

Seriously: I wish true freedom to you, with or without porn, whatever makes you happy. Choose life! It's the best...

Wow! Thanks

Well said, werf. And all the best, RouSSoneR.

Good luck to you RouSSoneR , and thanks for all your posts.

Just remember everyone , all things in moderation and you will be fine MM.

I just threw out 2 hard drives full of old porn and started a new one LOL.

I get laid weekly and am very active in life. Its all about moderation.

Bye RouSSoneR... I suspect I will be following you shortly. maybe I'll see you in the Philippines..... Take care...

You know I sat at my computer for two hours today...browsing porn (and doing other things...which I have no clue as to why it takes two hours)...anyway...I was supposed to be doing work...well...I read this post earlier...and it made me think...should I stop using porn? Then I thought of the alternative...I would be horny whether or not I had the porn...and although it would be nice ain't no women going to satisfy me as much as I need...when I need (though I wouldn't mind trying with some)...I think the point is that the porn isn't what causes us to be on the computer looking at porn all day...it is our hormones...so what does getting rid of your collection do...deny your maleness? If you need love bro...best to ya. But for the sake of pure release...porn comes in handy (no pun meant). Moderation...maybe...or you could say "purpose"...use it for the right reasons...oh yeah...and do your work first

This "interaction" with real, live girls...I've heard of it. What's that like?