A tough question for the pros.

Ok, so, I must admit, I've been holding out on all of you. But it is for good reason.

You see, I have these old pictures/videos I took when I was 19, with my then-18 year old girlfriend (ex-girlfriend now). She was still in high school at the time, but she was 18 years of age. As of now, she believes that I deleted them (I promised her I would... but I'm not crazy enough to do that!). We've drifted far apart, and now we only speak on facebook once in a blue moon.

The pictures consist of her nude, flashing her breasts, her going down on me, and close-ups of me penetrating her. The videos are 10-second quicktime videos of the same nature; unfortunately my digital camera could only take 10-second videos. Also unfortunately, I didn't get any money shot pictures or vids as she rarely let me even do that.

Now here's the problem: If she or someone who knows her happens to stumble upon this content on the net, she knows where they originated. Hell, it's MY dick in it. I don't want to get sued, as well as if she ever calls me for some no strings attached romp in the sack, there's no way I'm turning her down. Plus, I'd feel like some sort of creep (even though I kind of already do as I am in love with a new woman and I still possess this content).

But here are the reasons why I am contemplating posting it here:
1) She DID cheat on me numerous times, although I'm far over it.
2) I want access to the VIP area (assuming posting the content would even help).

I actually don't have her facebook page available as my current girlfriend bugged me to delete her from my facebook, and I just didn't want to deal with the drama.

So there's my dilemma. Please advise. Thanks!

It wouldn't let me edit my post. I keep getting an internal server error. I see she has her myspace set to private, so I have uploaded some of her myspace pics to imagevenue for you:

Posting pics of your ex won't help you get into the VIP. As for getting sued, they are your pics, but you did make a promise or verbal contract that you would delete them. Turning around and posting them would not go over well. Plus, did you need to post her full name and where she went to school? If you post them, she will find out and things could get ugly. I'm not saying you should or shouldn't post them, but be aware of the consequences or potential consequences.

Oohboobies wrote:

Not if, but when. DYasha's right...you need to make damned sure you think this would be worth any potential consequences. (Worst part - explaining to your current love that not only did you keep naked pics of your ex, but that you're willing to humiliate her publicly. Doesn't exactly inspire the warm-fuzzies, does it?)

Personally, I can't think of any sweeter revenge than to tell your ex you DID delete those pics...but not before you offered to post them on the net, but a bunch of porn addicts said "Meh, no thanks." BURN!

Good advice and thank you.

I didn't mean to rag on you, I just wanted you to know the potential consequences. Plus, your current girlfriend may not approve. She may not let you take nude pictures of her, or will demand you delete them. Or worse, she may dump you. "You lied to her, so what have you been lying to me about" or something to that effect. Post them, if you want, but at some time it will get back to her and she'll realize you posted them.

As for getting into VIP every post you makes gets you closer, video/pic posts do help. Thank you posts and short posts such as, great thread, nice and other single word posts,especially if you post a bunch at a time will only get you a warning for post flooding and not into the VIP. As for her or anyone she knows seeing them well does she hang out in pron forums or would any of her friends admit to hanging out in a porn forum to find them.
The odds of her seeing them are probably not very good. I would chance it myself, especially if she had cheated on me several times. There have been some revenge vids posted here in the past. But the choice is yours. I say bring em on.