This thread has been started in the "Pic Post" section. I decided to put a cross-ref here, in the discussion section.
BUT -- before you reach any "gelled and firm" opinions on the essay, go look at the pics, first. You must -- absolutely must -- keep the essay, and the pics, in balance, in order to grasp and understand either side of the formula, and the entire equation/challenge.
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Dear Guys (and a very few but very special ladies) -
Over the years -- aided by a good memory, an unlimited
budget, a brain that's well-adapted for organizing stuff, and a
dozen or so well-connected buddies who have helped me find things
-- I've created a pretty remarkable collection of extra-prime
porn pics.
While doing so, I've spent some serious time thinking about
what I could -- and maybe should -- do with my collection, other
than just using it to wank off when the timing seems right (which
is not all that often, since I'm happily married). The mundane
and tedious chores of browsing for porn -- searching for quality
among mountains of dreck, waiting out delays before a set will
DL, unzipping files, scanning and renaming pics, and then
figuring out the best way to sort, organize and store thousands
of different sets -- occupy only a small fraction of an active
brain, and that leaves the rest free to think about other things.
The bottom line is this: I have a mother, I grew up with at
least one sister, and I've raised at least one daughter. Women
have played extraordinarily important, nurturing, sharing, and
benevolent roles throughout my entire life, and I truly hope that
never changes. I'm deeply, deeply grateful to not just dozens,
and not just hundreds, but thousands of women, for all they've
done, for me, and for so many others.
But, as a direct result of the true and genuine fondness,
respect, affection, and warmth I feel for women, an unavoidable
conflict arises in my mind, my heart, my consciousness, and my
being, every time I go looking for, gather, sort and arrange, or
use porn.
The question I've been wrestling with can be stated in a lot
of ways, and here is one of them: What should a guy do, if he
truly and sincerely loves, respects, and admires women, and truly
wants the best for them, but if his brain and body are hardwired,
through millions of years of evolution and biology, to receive
intensely real, genuine, and lasting pleasure through the
contemplation, study, and sharing of physical beauty and sexual
love?
I don't claim, by any stretch, to know what the answers are
for everyone. Indeed, I don't even claim to know what the answers
are, for me. Nevertheless, after months of going through a "long
goodbye", I've reached the conclusion that, regardless of whether
the course I've chosen is right or wrong, I have a duty to at
least try to begin working with other people, to try to create
something better.
That's my starting point.
If you have begun to approach a point in your own life where
that same kind of question has occurred to you -- or, if you find
it potentially interesting, and possibly worth thinking about in
the future -- then I invite you to post your own thoughts and
suggestions, on how you would propose to find, form, and then
work with an informal network of internet buddies, to try to help
make the porn world a better place, both for men and for women.
If you have any ideas you'd like to propose or discuss, feel free
to either post them here, or to send them to me in a PM.
Here's the first batch, from the finest pic collection I've been
able to put together after years of looking. I'll start with 4
sets of some of the most beautiful B/G pics I've ever been able
to find, focusing on slender, skinny, and flat-chested women.
Why? Because, once a guy begins to see them in a certain
light and in the right way, women with slender, fragile, and
even frail bodies can and should create images, impressions, and
feelings of vulnerability. Instead of wanting to abuse or degrade
a woman like that, any healthy, intelligent, and reasonably well-
adjusted, well-balanced guy needs to tune and adjust his feelings
into a sense, and a belief-system, where he would want to do what
he can, to help a woman with that kind of vulnerability make her
way through an all-too-harsh, all-too-abusive world.
After posting four sets like this, I'll change course, and
shift to full-figured and large-breasted women. Because I truly
and sincerely love and want the best for them, too. So should any
healthy, intelligent, and reasonably well-adjusted, well-balanced
guy.
